Weekly Sex Facts

by Christian Sex Advice on October 10, 2011

There are many perks to sex.  Besides being a gift for a couple to enjoy, it has health benefits!

For the next few weeks we will share weekly Sex Facts.  Enjoy! 

“During 30 minutes of active sex, the average person burns approximately 200 Calories.”
(This fact taken from Random Facts.  Their source is: Kanner, Bernice. 2005 Are You Normal About Sex, Love, And Realtionships? La Vergne, TN: Lightning Source, INC.)
So if you are trying to lose some weight, burn a few extra calories today!


Spice it up!

by Christian Sex Advice on September 14, 2011

Spice it up!  Anything done the same way every time will eventually become mundane.  Children love field trips, Adults love variety, so even if you love routine the occasional change can be fun.  The same goes for your love life!  If your husband always initiates sex, surprise him!  Change your intimate environment, add candles or rose pedals!  Give your spouse a massage blindfolded and ask him to guess what part of your body is touching his.  Remember sex takes energy and time to keep it fresh and lively!  Surprise your spouse with an intimate text message! (Just make sure you send it to the right person!)  Keep your husband guessing what exciting new things you will pull out of your hat next.  He will appreciate your efforts and enjoy the thought you put into it.  If you always use the missionary position (not to be confused with a person serving the Lord in Africa, but the man on top of the woman during sex position) change it up and ride on top!  Your spouse will enjoy the view and will appreciate being able to sit back and enjoy for a change.  This position also allows for a woman to control how deep and how fast, increasing your chance of orgasm.  You will even burn a few calories in the process!  If you feel uncomfortable or awkward trying something new, try subtle changes.  If your husband responds favorably, then continue to build up to a new position.  Remember Romance is an adventure explore!


Adventures in Romance continues…

August 22, 2011

Since I have shared a helpful hint, it is now time for me, in all vulnerability, to share a failed romantic adventure.  While still in our first year or two of marriage, I decided to try something new and fun.  Candy Pasties seemed like a perfectly safe way to let my husband know he was [...]

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Adventures in Romance

August 2, 2011

Adventures in Romance Just like many wives, I have tried to keep my marriage a sexy, happy, healthy place… Some attempts at spicing up my marriage have been better than others. I am always looking for new ideas and tips! Using this blog, let’s share what works and maybe even a few….”it didn’t work for [...]

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The Initiator

July 17, 2011

By Jim R Harris MA July 16, 2011   Who should initiate sex? Over the years in counseling hundreds of couples I have heard men complain repeatedly that their wives never or rarely initiate having sex. (In general it is men that complain, but every once in awhile the roles are reversed) The reason why [...]

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Temperment: What your temperament has to teach you about your sex life.

June 6, 2011

By Jim R Harris MA June 6, 2011   What is your sex temperament? There are four primary temperaments. These temperaments are known as Choleric, Melancholy, Sanguine, and Phlegmatic.  Everyone has a primary approach to life based in one of these four temperaments. These temperaments may change slightly over the years, but in general they [...]

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How often?

May 11, 2011

By Jim R Harris MA May 1, 2011 In counseling over the years people have come to me with various different questions about their sex life. Of all the questions I get asked the one that is the most common is “How often should we have sex?” What people are looking for when they ask [...]

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James Bond Effect

May 11, 2011

“When you focus on yourself too much you can’t enjoy your partner as much as you could.” How to be yourself in the bedroom By Jim R Harris MA April 29, 2011 I will never forget, though it is embarrassing to share, when my wife said to me. “Honey, you don’t have to act like [...]

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